Our beautiful day S&M

Salam dan Hello everybody,

How are you? What is everybody up to this fine weekend? 

New place to eat? Movie night? Packing ? On the way back to college for final semester? or just simply resting? As for me, I'm here chillin at my in-laws for few days while my husband is away for a short course.

Eventhough this may sound like a cliché' , I really felt that time goes by so fast. We are already in the month of June 2013. It is not long since we heard about the 2012 'apocalypse' and how Kim Kardashian got knocked up by Kanye West as well as how American's choose to have Obama runs for another year or just the sad story about wars and human rights that never seems to end. I just hope all of you have an amazing year in 2012 and throughout this year 2013. 2012 held one of the highlight in my life, MY WEDDING DAY. Here are some of the pictures :)

My very hand made guest book :)

The simple hantaran from my side, all made by my dear Mother with fresh flowers :)

Alhamdulilah, dengan sekali lafaz.

My nikah dress is design and made by my mother.
And my makeup was done by my own super talented beautiful sister.

A simple royal icing chocolate moist cake 

The beautiful photo booth made by my amazing super talented Gengkaras. I love you guys :)



My wedding dress was also design and tailored by my wonderful mother. She also made my half moon shawl to match with the dress.

I am so grateful and thankful to have a wonderful family and friends who are very helpful, supportive and generous. Thank you so much for making our wedding day such a memorable chapter in my life. Especially my Mother and Makyung who have struggled to make my big day such a beautiful day. I never forget my family, my parents,my aunts and uncles, my siblings and cousins and my friends for helping me to have and experience such a wonderful wedding day. Only Allah S.W.T can repay all of you. 

Today, we have been together for six months. Alhamdulilah. May Allah bless our relationship and make it lasts until Jannah. May our love make us become more closer to Allah S.W.T and his Jannah. InshaaAllah Amin. The next chapter will be me making my way to motherhood. Please pray for me ok.

Before I end up my post tonight, for those who still searching or haven't met the one, let us ponder to this words.

 

 

Remember, Allah S.W.T first. Mari sama-sama kita belajar. 

Till then,

Salam.

Love always 

Marhoney

Why took you so long?

Salam and hello there.

It took me like forever to write a new post. It has been like 8 months since my last post. Well, in the past 8 months, there is a lot of things going on...LIKE GETTING MARRIED AND BEING PREGNANT. Haha, just few days back, a junior of mine told me that she read my blog and that I didn't seems to update it. Well, the first thing that I felt was at least there is someone who even care to read my blog. Thank you so much :)

The day of Akad Nikah. Being married is awesome!

Ok, before I start writing and posting stuff, I need several information first about blogging.

1. What is the type of audience that would read my blog?

2. What kind of material that my audience would like to read?

3. What type of material that would capture my audience intentions? 

It is so much like a research questions right, but I need to identify these so that I could improve my way of blogging and writing my minds out :) For me, I like to read blogs about beauty,DIY ,scrapbooking, self-motivation, day to day problems, celebrities and facts that most of us didn't know. I love to read blogs that easy for me to understand such as the use of simple language and it would be better if there's images or pictures. Sometimes I just like to look at pictures rather that reading the post. So, it depends on the audience itself.

However , by the end of the day, this blog should reflect about me, my life and my thoughts. So I am glad If I could share beautiful things with you guys (who read this blog) . It must not just be original me but the good one :)

Ok then,

till my next post,

Rock on and be courteous :)

Marhoney @ Mummy to be 

Interim Posting and Marriage

Assalamualaikum 

Hi ..Hello there.

How are you? How have you been? 

Me? Let me tell you.

I'm ok, I have a very bad eyesore today. I keep scratching my eyes and now its getting worst. Herm...I been jobless for the past 4 months since July, not 'jobless' actually, just waiting for our posting. Well, recently,after 4 months without a 'real' job (unless you consider doing house chores is a job), I finally received a great news that we are going to be posted. In case some of you didn't know, I graduated in B.ED TESL. Yes, an English teacher for primary school. So, we finally received the news. It an interim posting which means a temporary posting. We will only get the real posting after we pass an interview which will be held at the mid of November. My friends were soo excited that they can finally earn a living. However, the excitement weren't there for long, as most of us were posted to Borneo, Sabah and Sarawak. For me, I was thinking 'how bad it could be?' 

All of us received from the official by sms that were send to our phone. There were three of us who got posted to KUDAT. I was excited because I have my friends there with me, I was hoping to be posted to the same schoo with them, or if not so, at the same area near the pekan. I was wrong. I got posted to the school which is 30km from pekan Kudat. I went to PPD Kudat (Pejabat Daerah Kudat) and met the Guru Besar of he school. But on that day, I was miserable, my mind, heart and soul were fighting with one another. I always remind myself that I was strong and I can do this, but I got sooo frustrated these many things in my mind urge me not to take this posting. So, I decided not to go, because I feel that I need to focus on getting married. I'm getting married at the end of Nov. For some of my friends and family, this was not such a good excuse. :(

I know I CAN do it, staying there at the school for 4 weeks. Having fun with the kids and try to live with the new environment. But, deep in my heart, I can't decide. MY heart is torn into pieces. I have plenty things to do for my wedding. At the same time, I still have the  fears of taking this risk, choosing not to go for the interim posting. Some people understand me, some people not. They still ask me the same questions, telling me the same reasons why I should go. I get more confused.

All I want is for somebody to tell me that it's okay not to go, that he/she knows that I'm strong to take all the risk and that it will be okay. I just want somebody to give reassurance to my decision, not to toss it around and make me miserable. Sometimes I feel that I should just go to that school just to shut people's mouth.But I know, I can't keep the quiet. They will be talking the mind out. All I can do is to pray to Allah S.W.T to help me by showing me the right path, the right road which will be the best for all. 

What Should I do? Ya Allah, aku memohon ampun dari segala dosa-dosa yang pernah aku lakukan. Permudahkanlah segala urusan ku dan bimbinglah aku ke jalan yang benar Ya Allah. Sesungguhnya Engkau Maha Pengampun dan Maha Mengasihani. Amin.

:'( :'( :'(

Demam

Hi there, kepada pembaca tegar , loyal readers :)

I am now back in

KUALA LUMPUR

Lama x update ? ohh, itu biasa. TYPICAL ME MAR

Life in KL is very different from KK..kenapa? di sini you have to be very independent. Kau xda makanan, kau kena p beli, you cant afford to forget anything coz no one there to remind you. Pegi kelas? set the reminder coz your parents especially your mum is not there to wake you up. Dan macam saya, TENGAH DEMAM akibat mencuci toilet rumah malam2 sehingga jam 11, tidur pkul 2 pagi, bersihkan umah yg mcm umah hantu 2 hari, sekian saya DEMAM.. tp kalau awak demam kat KL, no one there to help you beli ubat and makanan sendiri you have to be strong, walaupun tangan mengigil dan hidung bersin bagai nak pecah,tp saya kuat kan langkah utk jalan ke kedai depan kondo beli makanan dan tisu berjela  SO ...I AM STRONG AND INDEPENDENT :)

tp apa pun, Alhamdulilah, semua ini x akan tercapai jika bukan berkat dari yang MAHA ESA

ALLAH S.W.T ..

saya bersyukur kepadamu Ya Allah kerana memberikan kekuatan ini :)

to all my readers yg baru nak start sem baru .wish u all the best..

kepada kami yg last sem, let make this sem the most memorable one :)

Good Luck

the gengkaras

Check2 blog2 orang, jumpa blog syamim dia pegi date dengan nizam kat birdpark..nampaknya bukan saya ngan syafiq ja la yg date kat sana :) hehe

rock on b***hes!

Be strong!

Marhoney

I'm lame , I know

 HAPPY NEW YEAR 

have you write down your new year's resolution?

ME? whats my new resolution?

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH

(laughing my heart out coz I don't have one .....YET, and 70% of my past years' resolutions haven't been achieved like, READING 4 ENGLISH NOVELS,let just say I'm not ready for it)

My list :

1. Be organize

2. Stop the bad habits like procrastinating, sleeping late and drink those carbonate drink,sweets and ASAM BOI. 

3. To lose some weight by exercising regularly and eating right and healthy (need to tone down around the tummy area, S**T, I looked like Vanessa Hudgen after she broke up with Zac Efron).

4. I'm engaged so I need to be someone's fiance. A VERY GOOD FIANCE' INDEED.(if you know what I mean).

5.?

Ermm, I will add to this list whenever I think about something.....Later

So, as you can see I didnt really post anything recently. It is because I'm busy. The house chores, cooking 3 meals a day. My everyday work during this holidays. It's very tiring but I managed. I learn a lot too, even though its frustrating sometimes. But, it's time for me to take care of my family especially my mother and makyung. They have been taking care of me for 20 years, 3 months are nothing to compare with that right? I learn to cook and bake :) and I love it, something useful in my married life in the future.InsyaAllah. like they say, one way to win a man's heart is through his stomach. :)

So, sorry for those pembaca tegar, my lovely reader, I"M SORRY...SORRY...if I have forgotten to write and share anything with you at this blog.

let's watch SOMETHING RANDOM

yes, saya BUDAK TESL.

Justin Bieber in the house ! Say what? No...he's Nizam STYLO

learning Science is fun especially when the lec coming late to the lab!

masa KURUS

very very BEAUTIFUL ......................................background

Makyung

Mother

Breakfast at McD' (xda maknanya kat Tiffany's)

My Headband

Teater

Tangan Syafiq

Hope to see u SOON..

Having a flu right now, and I sneeze infront of the laptop. What do you think?

Rock On !

Spread Love!

Stop judging!

Marhoney

Dear God

“Hate no one, no matter how much they’ve wronged you. Live humbly, no matter how wealthy you become. Think positively, no matter how hard life is. Give much, even if you’ve been given little. Keep in touch with the ones who have forgotten you, and forgive who has wronged you, and do not stop praying for the best, for those you love.” 

—Ali bin Abi Talib (RA) Ü                                                        Source        

Ya Allah, when the world criticizes me a million times over
Ya Allah, when the world keeps telling me hurtful things
Ya Allah, when the world keeps pushing “ugly” at me.
Give me the courage to hold firm to your Deen.
Ya Allah, as long as I am beautiful to you, nothing else matters.

Ya Allah, even when everyone leaves my side, let me take comfort in the fact that
You are closer to me than my jugular vein [50:16]                    Source

Amin

My engagement ceremony WITH LOVE

Hello there :)

Those who have visited this blog, THANK YOU

to new viewers WELCOME .... :)

Thanks for stopping by.

How fast time flies cause it's already the end of the year. Here in my hometown, Kota Kinabalu, Christmas and New Year's celebration can be seen throughout the city.  The beautiful lights, the christmas songs playing ect. When people ask me, what have you accomplished in 2011, I will definitely say I GOT ENGAGED IN 2011. It was the most memorable occasion in 2011 and accomplished as I am one step ahead in my relationship with my love SYAFIQ HAFRIZ. But the most important thing, the prayers from my family and my friends. Semoga semuanya di permudahkan dan di berkati oleh Allah S.W.T. 

It was a very small and intimate affair with family and close friend (GENGKARAS, you know who you are) However, I am very thankful that even with the halangan and problems yg dtg, it ended well. Well, as I'm not sharing the pictures of my engagement in my facebook, these are some of the pictures taken during the engagement party. ENJOY 

The Hantaran , made by MOTHER and yours truly :)

Mother ..thanks for everything :)

Pihak Lelaki arrived :)

The ceremony begin 

It's time for me to go down

which hand? that was my question.

It's official ,I'm  Syafiq's fiance

Kiss Kiss

Ya Allah, berkatilah perhubungan kami. Amin

Finally, we are one step ahead after nearly 6 years together 

I love you my GENGKARAS

I don't know what happen to me if you guys weren't there

Nasier said this is a studio pix .

As you can see, I just had a small ceremony so those who put such a big expectation on my engagement day as to be a huge one with the pelamin,door give and all, I'm sorry to disappoint you. I think even tho I really much wanting that kind of ceremony, the prayers, the love and the thoughts is what really counts. My family and especially my gengkaras were the biggest supporter and supported me through out the night.Thanks SYG :) I was blessed to have people like all of you in my life. For those who had wish and congratulate me, THANK YOU. 

Credit to my friend also a great photographer NASIER LEE for that amazing shots :)

this is the link to his Facebook account Nasier Lee

Well, it's time for me to go and feed my duck and cats..not forgetting the fish :)

Salam...

Rock on !

With love 

Marhoney a.k.a Paolo Nutini's hot new gf!